MEMBERSHIPS
A calendar reserved for members
Live conversations, talks, workshops and Q&As with our guests
on modern balance and the way we live: wellbeing in its widest sense, ideas, art and beauty
a vetted community of women, in real life and in the Salon, our private online space
tmr Evenings are members only, some doors open more widely, and members book first, always.
The Circle itself
you will know who is in the room
WHAT MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
Membership opens the life of the Circle: gatherings reserved for members, privileges with the houses we work with, introductions, and the digital salon where the Circle continues between rooms. A network first, friends soon after.
live, in a format the Circle will discover first
Monthly Membership
3 5 € / M O N T H
included in your membership, booked on the dates of your choice
in its full edition, for members alone
Annual Membership
3 5 0 € / Y E A R
Introductions made with intention
Two tmr Evenings each year
Rendez-vous with Lise herself
The Letter
Privileges with our partner houses
places, studios and brands that share the Circle's idea of living well, chosen for their spirit as much as their style
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Membership opens the life of the Circle: gatherings reserved for members, privileges with the houses we work with, introductions, and the digital salon where the Circle continues between rooms. A network first, friends soon after.
The Circle itself
a vetted community of women, in real life and in the Salon, our private online spaceIntroductions made with intention
you will know who is in the roomTwo tmr Evenings each year
included in your membership, booked on the dates of your choiceLive conversations, talks, workshops and Q&As with our guests
on modern balance and the way we live: wellbeing in its widest sense, ideas, art and beautyRendez-vous with Lise herself
live, in a format the Circle will discover firstThe Letter
in its full edition, for members alone.Privileges with our partner houses
places, studios and brands that share the Circle's idea of living well, chosen for their spirit as much as their styleA calendar reserved for members
tmr Evenings are members only, some doors open more widely, and members book first, always.
And more as the Circle grows.Beyond your included Evenings, gatherings are ticketed on their own, priced per event.
Beyond your included Evenings, gatherings are ticketed on their own, priced per event.
Applications and memberships are subject to The Modern Reference’s Terms & Conditions. By applying, you confirm that you have read and accept them.
And more as the Circle grows.
APPLICATION FORM
Every application is read personally.
If our worlds align, you will hear from us soon.
FAQ
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The Modern Reference is a Women's Private Circle based in Luxembourg and reaching beyond, built around intimate gatherings, honest conversations, partner houses and an editorial universe, where art de vivre comes first. Between gatherings, the Circle continues in a private online space of its own: daily conversations among members, live encounters with guests to join or watch again, a calendar where your seat is already waiting, and an editorial letter written for members alone.
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The Circle is built for women drawn to modern balance, who live wellness rather than perform it: meeting and talking, in person and online, supporting one another, building friendships that last and a network that counts. If that speaks to you, you will feel at home here.
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Membership is application based. Every application is read personally, and if our worlds align, you will receive an invitation to talk with Lise, the founder.
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Because a Circle is only ever as good as the trust inside it, and joining one should mean something. The application is less a selection than an introduction: it is where we meet.
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Membership is 35 € per month or 350 € per year, and it includes two tmr Evenings each year. Beyond your included Evenings, gatherings are ticketed on their own, priced per event.
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The gatherings are ticketed on their own. Part of the Circle's online life comes with membership, live conversations with our guests and a few special moments among them. Some events are deliberately small, and places are allocated in order of registration, with priority given to members who missed the previous one.
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Some Special Editions are open to non members, and they are a lovely way to discover the Circle. tmr Evenings are part of membership.
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Every application is read personally.
If our worlds align, you will hear from us soon. After validation, you receive access to membership payment, the member area and the private community. -
tmr gatherings take place in places we love, in Luxembourg. Exact details are shared with confirmed guests and members.
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With pleasure. tmr works with selected houses, brands, founders, artists, studios and spaces. For partnership enquiries, write to us at partnerships@themodernreference.com.

